People mix up the 80/20 rule in a relationship but its basically for a cheating relationship where infidelity describe as risking the 80% of your love, relationship, just for 20% of fun in a new relationship, it means putting a risk on a healthy long term relationship over a weak and temporary time pass attraction.
The 80 20 rule of a cheating is simple, a person who basically destroying their whole future just because they are getting attracted to someone else and just for a little bit of fun and new emotions they are actually fine for risking it all.
What's the 80/20 rule of cheating:
There's no math or philosophy required here to understand the basic concept of 80/20 rule of cheating, its a fact that a person who is attached in a relationship try their best to provide the best of the best things to their partner, even though if its about money, comfort, some needed things whatever they want or ask, their partner try their best to provide it to them, but still the main thing is that no matter what a partner do, there's this feeling in the cheaters heart that something is missing.
To fullfil that something which they feel like its missing, they walk on the path of infidelity and cheat on their partner, even though they had 80% of everything they wanted or needed in their life but still for just that 20% of something they think that they didn't have that and kinda deserve that, they actually cheat on their partner with someone else to fullfil their extra desires or needs, and its a simple concept that why now a days people risk all their life, partner, kids, everything for someone who they met few hours ago, just because they enjoyed some time with them.
Just because they enjoyed their company or they feel attractive, people actually choose to cheat instead of controlling themselves.
The Core Concept of the 80/20 Cheating rule:
Few things to cover in this topic to dive deep into this rule so a person can fully understand the concept and behavior of this rule, we will discuss the following things down below so you won't miss anything important.
• Trap of perfection.
• Infidelity starting point.
• The 20% attraction.
• Regret after infidelity.
• Second chance for cheater.
The trap of perfection in a relationship:
Mostly believe that they deserve proper care, love and respect from their partner and matter of fact they actually getting that proper attention and all that from their partner but everyone agrees on this point that no relationship is perfect aka 100% complete, there might be some ups and downs in a relationship but that's the point, if a person can't understand all that, how can they know that they deserve a good person too.
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Every partner try their best to provide 100% of what they can do, in order to fullfil their partner needs, their desires and basic foundation of a relationship like trust, support and shared values, but to fulfill the extra needs some people started looking at other options like someone they knew, their co worker, some random person, just to satisfy themselves.
The point where infidelity started:
We noticed that in most cases, during a relationship its normal to get bored of same routine, same people, same things again and again, that's also a main reason why this rule can be important here, as if a partner started getting bored of you, they might need someone else to end that boredom and started feeling active again.
People often get bored of their partner and as soon they saw someone else who also seems a little bit interested in them, they actually start cheating on that point, for example, its like a person eat beans all the time or rice, or anything like that again and again and eventually the moment comes they tell themselves that i won't eat the same meal again so they go and eat pizza or burgers or anything like that, so just like this example when someone gets bored of their partner, they eventually looks for someone else from them they can complete their new desires and here the 80 20 rule of cheating work as infidelity on cheating in a relationship.
The 20% attraction cheating:
As soon the cheater meets someone else they basically feels like that person is perfect to fullfil their 20% need and feels attractive, even though they knew that this affair relationship is wrong and totally bad for their relationship, still they do this just because to satisfy their 20% need.
The new person might offers exactly what was missing for them and knowingly or unknowingly they did that because they keeps feeling that something is missing and that 20% which was missing for them, they complete with that new person and do the act of infidelity and completely ruins the 80% of what they already have.
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Why cheaters regret after infidelity:
Its common for the cheaters to have regret on their decision after they getting caught of infidelity, mostly a person who cheated on their partner having so much fun, so much interesting things going on during cheating but as soon their sweet secret reveals and become a scandal, they are most likely try to apologize for what they did, started regretting on the decision's they make and started facing troubles like fighting, arguing, court cases etc.
The time period of infidelity is probably the heaven on earth time for a cheater because on that time they feel like they gain in life what was missing and in that flow of new love and romance they keep going until their partner find out that they are cheating with someone else And constantly lying to them, in such case when you find out that your partner is having an affair, the best choice for you to consult with your lawyer and before making any kind of step ask your lawyer about what should you do next after your partner betrayal.
Second Chance for the cheater:
Main question is this that, should you give a second chance to your partner after you find out about their infidelity, the answer is simple but required patience and trust. if you are completely sure that they learn from their mistake, and let's see if i gave them a second chance then they won't betray you again then yeah you should give your partner a second chance.
But there are circumstances when you deeply think that no they don't deserve a second chance and now its best time for you to leave that person who doesn't respect you, who doesn't respect your love and betrayed you with someone else, laugh at you behind your back. so yeah don't give them a second chance, but there are just 2% of cases where the partner who truly is love with their partner gave them a second chance.
In most cases the other partner don't care for them anymore after their cheating and keep remind them about what they did but the cases where the partner give their cheating partner a second chance are the cases where the kids are involved, so if you don't have kids yet, you might do what's best for you.
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