Is cheating in a relationship okay - Cheaterskarma

 Cheating is a relationship is not acceptable by your partner in case the partner is loyal, just because loyalty and trust is the main thing and the cheating in a relationship is definitely not okay but you are not just breaking the trust but also lying and having relationship with someone else and it causes significant emotional harm. one who thought its fine to cheat is on wrong path and they should talk to each other and share what they feel, and in case the things didn't work out, they should thinking about separation because that's the only option left.

in this article we will addressing some of the most common but important questions which people ask and wanted to know about that, such as:

• Is cheating in a relationship okay.
• Is cheating a mental disorder.
• Can you stay with someone who cheated.
• Can someone truly love you and still cheat.
• What is the most common age for affairs.
• Case: (Mike and Lana Infidelity story).
• How do men feel after cheating.
• Conclusion.

Is cheating in a relationship okay:

The cheating in a relationship is never meant to be justify as fair, because you are not just hurting the feelings of your partner but also you will become the reason of trauma for you and others and its not justify as a fair act after having a wrongful relationship with someone else.

if you are unhappy and not satisfied in your relationship, the best option for you is to talk with your partner and communicate with them. try to find a best option for you, don't just ruin everything by having an affair, and if the things didn't work out properly then only option you have left is to end your relationship and end everything and that's how you will become free to have another new relationship with someone else.

Is cheating a mental disorder?

Simple answer is No, cheating is not a mental disorder, its just the game of feelings and nature and attraction, infidelity come in a relationship when both stop spending much time or stop sharing feelings and less talking with each other. its normal to avoid your partner for few time but when that ignoring become permanent, then infidelity come in a relationship and destroy everything.

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You can think cheating as a temporary solution for time pass and enjoyment but its not permanent as well as it can destroy your whole life, many people didn't think about this at first, they actually knew that they are doing a mistake but they keep going in flow and excitement but the time will come when the consequences of cheating and infidelity destroy your happily marriage life and nothing else left for you except thinking and guilt.

Can you stay with someone who cheated:

Yes it is possible to stay with someone who cheated and actually in most cases when husband or wife cheating in a relationship, after getting caught and exposed they actually having hard time proving that it was a mistake and what they did was wrong and they just need one more chance to fix everything and they actually prove to their partner that it was just a mistake and they will never do that again but it is a hard path and those who successfully prove their love and trust to their partner, they actually get a second chance to fix their previous mistakes.

Reconciliation requires deep remorse from your partner, it needs to done in a way to actually prove yourself being trusted once again and a lot of time and hard work to prove your loyalty and build again the trust you have lost. 

The final decision to leave your partner or stay with your partner comes down to few things which are very important to rebuild a relationship, such as you have to prove your love again, you have to show them they your still care too much for them, you have to spend more time with them and show them the realization of your mistake and being guilty, you not just need to say i am sorry again and again but actually have to prove it to your partner, and all you have to be is polite, humble, caring and more ambitious towards your relationship to rebuild and once you have proven yourself that you are actually ashamed of what you did and actually just need a second chance to make everything right again, then its totally depends on your partner to stay with you or not. even though you cheated earlier.

Can someone truly love you and still cheat?

Yes that's true and it is most common in relationships as your partner deeply love you but when they get a chance they cheat on you, even though they love you but its just the fact that they do this to satisfy themselves and to have some fun and satisfying their extra needs by having cheating in a relationship.

it doesn't matter how much your partner love you and respect you, it usually stems from the cheater's own internal flaws, and attraction towards others to fullfil their extra needs, there's a common reason behind this is that their partner might not satisfy them as they needs so a cheater is most likely looking someone who can fullfil their satisfaction and let them feel better and special.

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What is the most common age for affairs?

The most common age for having an affair is between 35 to 50 to be accurate but that's not just depends on if you are getting old and you having an affair, but the young couples in now a days are most likely to be attracted towards others of their age just because they are young and they feel a new fun cheating their partner, those who are in the age of 35 to 40+ are dealing with the midlife crisis having attracted to the young person and wanted to live the same moment as they was young.

Those who still love their partner and wanted to cheat on them is just because they are not happy with them. eve though they like them and respect them but the fact that they wanted something new in their old and boring life, they choose infidelity and wanted to live the moment they missed the most.

Infidelity Case: 

Mike and Lana marry at 22 years, both were 22 when they were married but now after 15 years passed, lana was busy at work because she owns few beauty saloons and she was a busy woman, while mike served in the army for few years, the gap between both was too much, as mike come back home after few years, he found out that lana was having affair with the neighbor, ( the fact that both love each other but he was not here to satisfy his partner, his partner choose to have an affair to satisfy her needs ) as soon he finds out that lana had an affair and she was sleeping with his neighbor from few years and he is also not the father of his youngest son, he didn't divorce her, he understands that there was a reason why she cheated on him, he was a bit angry but he understands the reality and the current situation, after retirement they moved to another town, at the age of 60's they both were still together and having a good life, - This case shows us that cheating has few reasons behind and it is your choice to stay with someone who cheat on you. just like that mike would have divorce her but he choose to understand what's the reason of his wife infidelity and he accepts it and make few boundaries in their relationship.

How do men feel after cheating:

A man who loves his wife is very sensitive in case of cheating and infidelity, his ego can't handle the fact that his wife is sleeping with someone else behind his back and an average man is so sensitive about this, most men don't like when their wife is attracted to someone else and showing interest in someone and if they found out that his wife had an affair, then they can't handle it. This makes them violent and sensitive and they become angry.

Not everyone is hyper after the infidelity of their wife, but few have control on themselves as they try to find out that what actually was the reason that why his wife did this and try to find out that is there anything they did wrong and still try to fix everything.

Basically cheating in a relationship is a curse and its bad for every relationship and its the reality of our society that a couple who fall in love once would eventually loose interest in each other over time, but we can end these distances by spending time and talking and by sharing our feelings to our loved ones.

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Conclusion:

we know that its hard to trust again once your trust is broken by your partner but sometimes we had to give them a chance to prove their love in case they are actually feel guilty and its not a bad thing to still believe in your love, because from inside every person is broken and they just want someone to love you and if they get the attention and love they deserve, then there's no way that they will ever thinking about leaving you or cheat on you, all they just need is some support and love and a lot of care.

if you think that your relation has no more love and fun it was once a long time ago and this makes you stressed and angry and frustrating then maybe its the time for ending that relationship but never loose hope because it's never too late to rebuild your relationship with your partner because everyone deserves best in life even though they did mistakes earlier, its our duty to show them the right path and to motivate them about their life and if you see such case in your neighborhood, its your duty to try to fix the problems between a couple as a good gesture.

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